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So you made a decision to change your life at summer church camp…what next?

August 13, 2018 by Susan 9 Comments

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You went to the classes.  Listened to the messages.  Sang the songs.  And somewhere in the midst of it all, God reached in and tweaked something inside you.  You heard Him.

Maybe it was like a lightning bolt to your heart.  Maybe it was a tiny seed that He planted and is barely beginning to sprout.  It could be a cloudy something that has been in your mind for months, only now it is crystal clear.

Conviction of sin.  A call to ministry.  Light for the next step.  Purpose.

Whatever it is, He spoke and you listened.

Growing What God Has Planted

Can I tell you what you don’t want to do?  You don’t want to garden like me.  (Hang in there, you’ll understand in a minute).

I’m an awful gardener.  The worst.

My son works for a greenhouse and brings me plants every year.  This year I even paid my younger son to clean the weeds out of my garden box before I planted anything.  Starting fresh, I was hoping to do better this year.

I planted the tomatoes, the basil, some pepper plants.  I even watered the garden a few times.

Then summer life happened.  We travel for week-long camps and conferences, I’m working more hours tutoring, and well… it’s hot outside and there are bugs.  My gardening efforts this summer were mostly me looking out the window and saying,

June: There are some weeds starting to come up, I should get out there and pull them.

July:  When did the weeds get taller than the plants?

August:  Ugh. Maybe I’ll do better next year.

I actually went out there for the first time today.  Ugh is right.

 

Of the two tomato plants that were still visible, one was completely dead and there are rotten tomatoes in the dirt.

 

I found one ripe pepper hidden amidst the weed forest.  Couldn’t even identify the rest of the pepper plants.

 

The one tomato plant that still has some hope is one that I did put a cage around when I planted it, so it has had some support.

Surely you see where I’m going with this analogy.

Friends, God has planted a seed in your heart.  You are filled with hope at what He can do with it and you want that seed to grow and produce fruit in your life.  Maybe even desperately.  You want to walk the path that He is lighting for you.  You want to obey Him.

But just like my garden was overgrown with weeds and turned into a real mess, so will your heart return to what comes naturally if you aren’t intentional.

A wise old owl I know said that people gain enthusiasm more quickly than they gain confidence.

 

 

I love that!

You are excited at what God has spoken to you.  You have hope in what He has planted.  That’s enthusiasm!  But learning to grow it and actually change your life takes confidence and experience.  It takes time.

Camp builds enthusiasm, and God capitalizes on that to get your attention.  But real and lasting change takes time

8 steps to grow what God has planted and change your life:

Surround yourself with people who will encourage the growth in you.  Impossible, you say?  Find one.  Just one.  One person from camp, from your church, or your family, who makes you want to be the person God designed you to be.  And make it a point to talk to them regularly.

Stay in touch with people from camp.  Social media is a breeding ground for not-so-positive things, but it is also a tool you can use to stay in touch with positive influences.  Use it.

Give God and people permission to call you out.  What kid ever asks their parents for discipline?  Probably none ever.  It’s not intuitive.  Try it anyway.  Ask God to correct you when you go the wrong way.  Ask Godly people in your life to remind you of your goals.

Read your Bible.  Every day.  This is an opportunity for God to speak directly to you.  You don’t have to read the whole thing (or even 1/2) at one sitting– read one chapter!  It will take you 10 minutes.  If you’re unsure where to start, this page has information on how to get started, which translation you might prefer, etc.  Another resource to check out is this site that shares a daily devotion.  You can even get them delivered to your email so you don’t have to remember to check the site.

Pray.  Ask God to remind you when you have some ‘weeding’ to do.  Ask Him to close doors that will take you in the wrong direction and to shine a gigantic spotlight on the path He’d like for you to walk on.

God is speaking, friends.  If we’re not hearing Him the problem is on our end, not His.  I’m praying for you right now that anything that is blocking you being able to hear God’s voice would be removed so that you can hear Him clearly.  And when you hear Him, that you would have the courage to obey.

Make a plan and do the work.  Don’t just hope that things go the way you’d like them to.  Don’t stand at your window and watch the weeds overtake what God has planted!

Look for the fruit.  If you notice some weeds starting to overtake the good stuff, dig around a little.  You might be surprised at what grew despite your neglect.  Hold on to the good.

Don’t give up.  Listen, this lone tomato plant is my baby for the rest of the season.  I may not get a bumper crop, but I’m going to do everything I can to make sure that the ones that are on the vine survive.  This little corner of my garden had some extra support due to the tomato cage that I put up.  Likewise, you may find that even when your life feels overgrown there will be some areas that you can still see some hope.


When you finally take the walk out to examine the state of things, don’t quit because you’ve made a mess of it.  Tend the fruit that is there.  Remind yourself that you may never be a master gardener, but you can grow what God plants in your heart.  Perfection isn’t our goal.  Better is.  And sometimes we need a few tries to get there.  The Bible-y word for this is grace.  Oh how I love grace.

But grace isn’t meant to excuse our sin, our missing God’s best.  It’s meant to give us a second chance at it.

Paul said, “God’s grace to me was not without effect.”

What effect is God’s infinite grace having on you?  Is it changing you?  Making you into the person that God had in mind when He created you?

 

his grace to me was not without effect



If you heard Him speaking into your life, you know that He wants something more for you.  Lean into that.  Take your enthusiasm and let it grow into confidence.  You might not be exactly where you wanted to be next summer, but you can be a lot closer!

The God that created the universe wants to do a work in you.  That is too cool to express, and too humbling to overlook.

How can we pray for you?

 

Click here for lots more resources on growing faith, lessons from Scripture, and more!

 

 

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Comments

  1. Joyanne says

    August 14, 2018 at 9:20 pm

    Wise and relevant counsel.

    Reply
    • Susan says

      August 15, 2018 at 9:36 am

      Thanks, Joyanne!

      Reply
  2. Amy Blanchard says

    August 16, 2018 at 2:14 pm

    These tips are great! Don’t overlook that “summer camp” isn’t just for kids….or for camp. We can get excited about something God is teaching us at a seminar or workshop, hearing a sermon, or in our daily Bible reading. These tips apply then, too. Also, they are helpful for supporting others who have had a fire lit in them. Thanks for sharing these!

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    • Susan says

      August 16, 2018 at 2:40 pm

      Yes!!! That is exactly what I had in mind when I was writing. God can spark a change in us, but following through and seeing that change last is not easy (at least for me). 🙂

      Reply
  3. Jane Anderson says

    September 19, 2018 at 7:18 am

    Hi Susan, very nice blog! These tips are great, I will recommend it to my friend. Thank you for sharing!

    Reply
  4. Hadassah says

    July 15, 2019 at 11:12 am

    Very motivating post! You are right – the difficult part after we get initially inspired is to follow through, especially in the long run (year after year). We tend to want things at once, we long to see outcomes and fruits and we long for completion. But we tend to ignore the process of preparation and God working in us, building our character and confidence, preparing us to carry the fruit without breaking. God is the Master Gardener!

    Reply
    • Susan says

      July 17, 2019 at 11:57 pm

      Finding motivation in the process is so difficult, you’re right–we want the end result NOW! 🙂

      Reply
  5. Jennifer says

    July 26, 2019 at 9:51 am

    This is an important topic. It is easy to make those commitments for God when you are secluded in a Christian environment. It is hard when you leave that safety for the “real” world. Great post!

    Reply
    • Susan says

      July 26, 2019 at 2:34 pm

      Thanks, Jennifer! It’s true, the motivation, encouragement, and constant Spiritual focus makes such a difference.

      Reply

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